fluffymark | Refusing to be depressed

There must be a word for being woken up by a load of cheese sauce sachets being angrily flung onto my bed in the morning. I've had the of vases and shoes and the like being flung across rooms when people get upset with me, but cheese sauce? Thats a new one even for me.

That was yesterday. Catt was not happy with me. For answering the phone when Val called. Thats all. Catt appeared to take this as some sort of grave offense that I'm abandoning her. But it was only a phonecall. I'm allowed my friends to phone me aren't I? I'm confused.

Martin and

excelsis not going to Whitby. Not good. Less people I know there. Also more expensive, unless I manage to find someone who needs a lift from london and a place to stay in the next week.

Despite these bad things, I'm still managing to see the good side of things. I'm almost certainly going to Glastonbury. With doseybat and

aiwendel. I'm also going to a ball in cambridge with the doseybat. I may even be popping off to Paris at the jubilee weekend to meet up with Val. And New Model Army are playing london in a little intimate venue at the end of may. Val asl wants to do electric Dreams sometime. And I think I'll still like whitby, despite the usual last minute disaster like this. I've got lots of things to look forward to.

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"cheesed"?
"sauced" ?
"sacheted"?
"sacked with cheese"?
"sauceesed"?

probably a compliment in come cultures - people throwing food and other valubles at you :)

better ideas...
"breakfasted"
"fed"
"breakfastinbeded"
:)

Cheese sauce for breakfast? Ick!

Chocolate and jelly beans in bed for breakfast is good though.

you'll have to start making requests :)

maybe if you go on about how much you /really/ hate chocolate and jellybeans you might get em next time (-:{

Somehow I don't think that will work. But I can always try. I've got jellybeans and chocolate coated coffee beans by my bedside anyway so it won't be too difficult if she wants to pelt me with those.

~hugs~
You do indeed have things to look forward to, and everyone has moments of extreme irrationality...I'm sure things will be fine. (Though I don't recall ever hearing of anyone having cheese sauce thrown at them before...)
Almost starting to think going to Whitby next time would be a good idea, even though I'm steadfastly NotAGoth - too many people I want to meet who go there...
~more hugs~ Stay happy if you can sweetheart...you're even lovelier when you're happy...

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Whitby? Goths? Goths go to whitby? Next thing you'll be telling me is that bands play there for people to listen to. I've heard odd rumours to this effect ;-)

I think you'll fidn there are a load of NotAGoths at whitby. We'll have to find you an invisibility cloak first though.

~laughs~
Oh, very well then.

Yah, invisibility cloak would be good. Too many pretty people. I just wouldn't fit in. ~shakes head~

~meep~ I keep forgetting people actually *read* my LiveJournal from time to time...

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Surely lots of pretty people is a reason to go. It's definately one of the reasons I'm going! *halo*

And I *am* reading your livejournal. Be careful what you write! :)

Yes, lots of pretty people is a reason to go, but it would mean that I'd have to go in an invisibility cloak because I wouldn't fit in. ~shrug~ And after all, I can just look at photographs of the pretty people...

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Looking at photos of pretty people!!! You're a complete voyeur, thars what you are! *giggle*

Even better than lookging at phots is going up to them and talking to them and hugging them though. Isn't that what whitby is about? :)

Who, me? ~grin~
I'm not, just terribly awfully shy....

I'm sure that's what it's about. I expect I will get dragged to the next one.

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You're being very cool. Catt is not being very cool. *hugs* When are you coming to Cambridge?

I'll be visiiting cambridge middle of June. Its the Playford ball. Bit like a formal ceilidh really. I've not done one of them in a long time. And yes, I'll need somewhere to stay, and er...so will bat.

*raised eyebrows* I think the fluffhouse will still be existent in the middle of June, and if so you're both welcome, if you don't mind the... squash... and bat doesn't mind stuff that bat might mind...

You inferring bat may mind us both having to share the spare room? It may be awkward but I'm sure we'll survive. Or something.

No,I thought she mnight not want to see me and Casby, but maybe she will by then.

Eeeeeek! I'd not realised that she was in a 'not talking' thing with you and casby. Hmmmm. She'll change her mind soon enough I'm sure. Less than a month ago she claimed she was in a a 'not meeting' mood with me, and since then I've seen her a few times and we're planning lots of things together this summer!! So even I don't understand her at times.

yeah... I'm thinking that too.. .thanks.

Well I always have plenty of free floorspace, you're always welcome.

eek, didn't know about Martin not going. Maybe we can try on camgoth/commune seeing if anyone wants a lift/accomodation?

*hugs*
I guess the point is that Catt can't help feeling how she does, but that doesn't mean you should cut back on whatever you do with other friends; that's not fair on you (or your other friends). If she's worried of being abandoned or left out, it sounds to me that the best thing is to reassure that she isn't (though easier said than done perhaps), which doesn't mean you have to stop accepting phone calls etc:)

Or something like that.

Maybe we can find a replacement 4th person for the car and cottage. I've emailed catt to check if she's OK with this before attempting mailing to mailing lists though. So far I've only tried targeting people individually (like alex) who might still be looking, but without success.

i've emailed catt to reassure her i havn't forgotten her existance.
sorry to abandon you for whitby but i couldn't have coped :-(

I understand. It's OK. *hug*

If you could find a replacment person for the carspace and the room that would be appreciated. Although obviously it would have to be someone catt-friendly.

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