Refusing to be depressed

[fluffymark]

There must be a word for being woken up by a load of cheese sauce sachets being angrily flung onto my bed in the morning. I've had the of vases and shoes and the like being flung across rooms when people get upset with me, but cheese sauce? Thats a new one even for me.

That was yesterday. Catt was not happy with me. For answering the phone when Val called. Thats all. Catt appeared to take this as some sort of grave offense that I'm abandoning her. But it was only a phonecall. I'm allowed my friends to phone me aren't I? I'm confused.

Martin and excelsis not going to Whitby. Not good. Less people I know there. Also more expensive, unless I manage to find someone who needs a lift from london and a place to stay in the next week.

Despite these bad things, I'm still managing to see the good side of things. I'm almost certainly going to Glastonbury. With doseybat and aiwendel. I'm also going to a ball in cambridge with the doseybat. I may even be popping off to Paris at the jubilee weekend to meet up with Val. And New Model Army are playing london in a little intimate venue at the end of may. Val asl wants to do electric Dreams sometime. And I think I'll still like whitby, despite the usual last minute disaster like this. I've got lots of things to look forward to.

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[fluffymark]

I'll be visiiting cambridge middle of June. Its the Playford ball. Bit like a formal ceilidh really. I've not done one of them in a long time. And yes, I'll need somewhere to stay, and er...so will bat.

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[eveilena.livejournal.com]

*raised eyebrows* I think the fluffhouse will still be existent in the middle of June, and if so you're both welcome, if you don't mind the... squash... and bat doesn't mind stuff that bat might mind...

[fluffymark]

You inferring bat may mind us both having to share the spare room? It may be awkward but I'm sure we'll survive. Or something.

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[eveilena.livejournal.com]

No,I thought she mnight not want to see me and Casby, but maybe she will by then.

[fluffymark]

Eeeeeek! I'd not realised that she was in a 'not talking' thing with you and casby. Hmmmm. She'll change her mind soon enough I'm sure. Less than a month ago she claimed she was in a a 'not meeting' mood with me, and since then I've seen her a few times and we're planning lots of things together this summer!! So even I don't understand her at times.

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[eveilena.livejournal.com]

yeah... I'm thinking that too.. .thanks.

[emarkienna.livejournal.com]

Well I always have plenty of free floorspace, you're always welcome.

eek, didn't know about Martin not going. Maybe we can try on camgoth/commune seeing if anyone wants a lift/accomodation?

*hugs*
I guess the point is that Catt can't help feeling how she does, but that doesn't mean you should cut back on whatever you do with other friends; that's not fair on you (or your other friends). If she's worried of being abandoned or left out, it sounds to me that the best thing is to reassure that she isn't (though easier said than done perhaps), which doesn't mean you have to stop accepting phone calls etc:)

Or something like that.

[fluffymark]

Maybe we can find a replacement 4th person for the car and cottage. I've emailed catt to check if she's OK with this before attempting mailing to mailing lists though. So far I've only tried targeting people individually (like alex) who might still be looking, but without success.